Sometimes you thought that you found the one that you think may be 'the one' but then again, it was never meant to be....Both of you may share similar interests but somehow differs in the definition of relationship, about life...it is a big deal if you want to maintain a good relationship...Life's objective is important...so even though both have that special feelings for one another but if the objective of life is against one another, the best option is to let each other go completely. I learnt that you don't have to be with that person if you like/love that person...the most important thing is wishing the other person a happier life rather than holding on to something that was never meant...Sometimes letting go may be a blessing in disguise...
I have learnt a lot through the past few months, and the lesson is one of many life's experiences. I learnt to accept things that are out of my leap, but at the same time, the question is can I live with it for the rest of my life knowing that the person will not change....In many relationships, there are expectations...and each one of us have different expectations with one another...Can we let go of the expectations? Can we just accept whatever that comes? I personally think that you can only accept to a certain degree, but beyond that it is hard to absorb and eventually you will feel suffocated...but at the end of the day, knowing that we tried...knowing that we actually tried to make it work is most important...You may always wonder if the other person actually tried as hard as you...but it all boils down to the heart....the honesty and the truth..only that person will know....
Life still goes on, the world still turn, and the world will not cry for you....there are many wonderful things out there to explore and even if it doesn't turn out the way we want it to be...we know we will survive...we can adapt and we will always be learning....time will only tell...
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